I wonder if yesterday’s Quote made you squirm a bit? In my work as a therapist, at some point with each client we would chart friendships and relationships, wondering how the changing “tastes” and mutual attractions illuminated the process that is their lives. Most found this exercise valuable and affirming.
Taking control over our own evolution will cause seismic changes in our relationships. Corvus mentions in his writings how this happens. Most people reading here will have experience of this, or be in the middle of it, I would guess! – so I won’t go into that.
My question is, Does it work the other way around? In other words, can we cause seismic shifts in our evolution by taking control over our relationships, by choosing our partners and friends to reflect the values we wish to grow into?