Everyone does NOT follow the same script.
I heard today a friend of mine say of another, “Diane’s so egoless, I’m quite in awe of her.”
What was meant by this was: “If I were able to live my life like Diane appears to me to be living her life, then I would have had to have learned to live beyond my ego.”
And, as I pointed out, if Diane lived her life like my friend lives his own life, Diane would have had to have learned to live beyond her own ego.
However, my friend has an advantage. By incorporating some of Diane’s qualities into his own life, he can begin to do just that. I have had the benefit of being trained in the Enneagram, which allowed me an awareness of other’s scripts – and my own. (A useful link is www.enneagramcentral.blogspot.com).
It is often confusing, but always beneficial, that everyone does NOT follow the same script.